While we were searching for our soulmates, our paths crossed and initially thought that it may work out. We talked, exchanged messages, video called and met. And that was the moment, when we felt so strong for each other, after which we decided to be together for life. As for suggestion, I'd say that sometimes patience pays fruits. And nothing can happen before the stipulated time. So keep calm, and try. :) Communication is the means to understand each other. Make sure that when you send or accept requests, talk to them; be it a positive environment, or a no. Making things clear with each other is always beneficial. All the best to you, hope you find your soulmate. Happy Searching..!!