JeevanSathi- Compatibility Report

The flow of your relationship will stimulate mutual respect and, thereby, growth of love.

In any relationship it is respect that is most important. Love is said to, "flourish in the soil of mutual respect." When any two people get together there is a particular flow between them. If it flows well, both people feel respected, cared for and loved. If it does not flow well, both people fell disrespected, incompetent and frustrated. Men and women tend to feel loved for different things and thus need to be respected in different ways. Men feel most loved when their thoughts and actions are respected and when they are appreciated for what they do. Women feel most loved when their feelings are respected and when they are appreciated for who they are. This is not to say that a woman does not feel loved when her thoughts and actions are respected and when she is appreciated for what she does, it is only to say that she feels most loved when her feelings are respected and when she is appreciated for who she is. Men do feel loved when they are appreciated for who they are and when they have their feelings respected, but they feel most loved when they are respected for their thoughts and actions and when they are appreciated for what they do. Since men and women feel most loved when respected for different things, a healthy relationship will flow in such a way so that both people will most often be respected for what is most important to them.

Your relationship is set up so that the energy will flow from the man to the woman, which is the ideal situation. The man will get a clear picture of what needs to be done in the relationship and he will be able to take the steps to do it. This will put him in a position where the woman will have the opportunity to respect him for what he is doing. As a result he will feel loved and his self-esteem and confidence will flourish and he will become a better man as a result. He will also get ideas about the relationship and what to do in the relationship and bring them to the woman for her consideration and input so they can work together to create a happy future. The woman will feel loved and cared for since the man is taking the steps that show that she is important to him and that she is worth building a life with. Since the man will be demonstrating his love for the woman, the woman will feel better and better about herself. Any ills she may have suffered in the past and in past relationships that have caused her to wonder why anyone would ever want to be with her will become distant memories and she will become a better and happier woman.

If for some reason you find things not flowing as smoothly, then there are likely to be issues that both of you have to work out as individuals, but which the relationship can help you work out. If things are not flowing as expected, then the man will be in need of improving his self-esteem. He probably doubts himself or just doesn't know what he wants in life. This can cause him to not put the proper energy into the relationship or make it hard for him to have the courage to tell the woman what he wants. Given time, this relationship can help him discover these things about himself, since the flow of the relationship will help him breed the confidence he needs. The woman will probably still feel the need to prove herself, that somehow she is not "good enough," or that if she does not do it, no one will do it just for her. As a result of feeling these things, she may do a lot more than necessary in the relationship. Given time, the good flow in this relationship will help her feel better about these things and help her experience a whole new world where she is the center of her man's attention and actions.

You are on Completely Different Wavelengths

For a relationship to be smooth, efficient and nurturing the couple has to be on the same wavelength. They must have mutual needs so that they can share in the fulfillment of those needs and they must have an innate ability to understand each other. Everything that we do in life has a subtle influence upon us. Throughout the day we crave one thing or another. Fulfilling these cravings goes a long way in helping us feel balanced and energized. When our body is craving exercise we need to get out there and move or we just won't feel okay. If we are feeling the need to be by the ocean we won't feel right until we get there. If we feel like eating a certain food, we will feel hungry until we eat that food. So it goes throughout the day. A couple that wants to spend a lot of time together has to have needs and cravings that are similar in nature and they have to have these needs at the same time. Otherwise, one or both of the individuals will not experience enough of what they need and end up not feeling right until, over time, they will become drained. If this type of attunement is not there, then the couple will also not relate and communicate well together since they really won't be tuned into the same thing at the same time.

Your Wavelength score is less than fifteen, which puts you on a different wavelength. As a result of this, you will not really be attuned to each other and will often have very different needs. This can make it difficult and quite an act of compromise to get both of your needs met. But if you don't, one or both of you will start feeling off and can even get drained to the point of exhaustion or sickness. This low Wavelength score shows that you are not really attuned to each other, which can make it more difficult to understand each other so communication will have to be much more verbal and very clear. Since you are on a different wavelength, you won't be able to tune into each other's needs and words as well and so your sharing won't feel as deep as you probably would like it to be. Low attunement means that you actually "vibrate" at a different and even conflicting frequency, so spending a lot of time with each other in close proximity, sleeping in the same bed and such can actually be draining. You will probably notice that if you do sleep together you will need more sleep, so if you want to keep this relationship, doing more things alone and even sleeping in different beds occasionally may well be necessary to keep you both feeling balanced, energized and healthy.

Often a low Wavelength score does not seem like a big problem at the beginning of a relationship. It is over time that the difficult effects become apparent. So this may not feel very serious at first, but over time you may find the relationship draining and find yourselves growing apart and pursuing more and more things without each other.

If you are involved with a person that you have a low Wavelength score with and you are trying to work things out, the best thing that you can do is be independent and allow both of you to go and do what you need to do for yourself in order to feel balanced and energized. Then come together and enjoy your time together with energy and enthusiasm.

Your Wavelength score is determined by eight different astrological measures. Each of these eight measures has something important to show you about your relationship. Continue reading to learn all about these eight factors and how they are affecting your relationship.

Your Relationship Suffers from Excess Vata

Each persons physical health as well as their actions are governed by three principles: Kapha, Pitta and Vata. Kapha correlates to the Chinese principle of Yin and to the Phlegmatic temperament. Pitta correlates to the Yang principle and the Bilious temperament. Vata correlates to the interplay or movement of Yin and Yang and the Windy temperament. These principles are very important in respect to our actions, health and feelings. Kapha provides the capacity for love, devotion, receptivity, rest, enjoyment and emotional response. Pitta provides courage, initiative, leadership, determination, intelligence, improvement and protection. Vata provides the capacity for the change and adjustment that life requires in order to live healthily and happily. If one of these temperaments becomes excessive, then the relationship, the lives of both the individuals and the physical health of the couple may become unbalanced and strained.

Each person has their own make up and blend of Kapha, Pitta and Vata, which is their "normal" state. This "normal" state may or may not be a healthy "normal." Regardless of a person's normal mental and physical state, when we relate to another person, the energy can change and there is the possibility of two people relating together to create an excess of Kapha, Pitta or Vata which results in their relationship having some imbalance. The imbalance will also carry over into the rest of their lives.

Astrological Factors indicate that your relationship suffers from excess Vata. Excess Vata can make it difficult to maintain focus and consistency and you may find your lives together being full of change and instability. You may especially notice inconsistency with the small things, such as eating regularly, sleeping regular hours, keeping a schedule, etc. When trying to work something out, you may find yourselves quickly becoming confused and unsure of your thoughts and not be able to explain yourself the way that you desire to. Or, if you do actually come up with a game plan, you will find it difficult to follow through. Basically, excess Vata causes the relationship to be a bit ungrounded and makes it more difficult for you both to be focused and grounded when in each other's presence. This not only creates difficulties in small things, like not having a clear idea of how to proceed or what to do at times, but also with the big thing of what to do with the relationship. When you do feel a lack of focus around each other, just a short time apart can get you both on track again.

Ancient astrological texts state that excess Vata will harm the woman more than the man. Vata is the energy of movement, grace and change, which is usually more dominant in women than in men. Excess Vata in a relationship, therefore, tends to affect the woman more than the man. So it is more likely that the woman will feel that her life is getting more inconsistent and lacking focus and direction. Excess Vata can cause the woman to suffer from fatigue, constipation, stress, and lethargy in the mornings, restlessness in the evenings and shallow or disturbed sleep. It is, therefore, a good idea to emphasize taking care of the woman's health and make sure that she eats and sleeps regularly, gets away from the stress and finds something relaxing to do. Exercise helps. Excess Vata can, of course, affect the man as well, but usually it is the woman that suffers the Vata excess the most.

Excess Vata reduces your Wavelength score by eight points over what it would be if you did not have any such excess. Lack of focus and spaciness can prevent you from projecting yourselves the way that you really are; therefore, it becomes difficult to relate to each other as you really are with your true intentions. Thus, you will not be as attuned to each other and will more often feel out of sorts with each other's goals and ambitions.

Having this excess is likely to be the biggest obstacle to having the perfect relationship, so you will want to concentrate on working this out.

You will naturally be creative and constructive with each other.

Astrological indications reveal that you will find it quite easy, and even automatic to be constructive with each other. You will find many things to create together and share many desires together that you hope to build into your lives. You will very often desire to do and create very similar things so that there will be many opportunities to enjoy each other as you build your lives together. Your capability to create together is one of the best things for the relationship and earns you seven points towards your Wavelength score.

Astrological indications reveal that, when you come right down to it, the woman has an independent, eccentric and intense temperament with many emotional depths and that the man has a progressive, industrious and practical temperament. These are not compatible temperaments and so you lose up to six points that you could have otherwise earned towards your total Wavelength score.

Women with this type of astrological lunar temperament are very temperamental and their unbridled emotions can make them go to extremes at times. Only men with the same type of astrological temperament are considered compatible. Men with other types of astrological temperaments, such as the man in question, will have a hard time appreciating this type of woman. He will misunderstand her and often feel threatened by her, and she will not feel accepted for who she is. Nor will he have the ability to settle her at times when she is feeling an extremely turbulent or depressing emotion, or to help her feel better when she is down in the dumps.

You do not have an ill affinity toward each other.

Astrological indications reveal that you do not have any extra affinity for friendship; however, you do not have an affinity for enmity either. Compromise will be more necessary, but it shouldn't be any great problem to come to decisions that leave you both feeling happy. When things get tough, you may find yourself holding back a bit so as not to say anything that you may regret and it may be tough to work things out when they get hard, but you will be able to in the end. Since you do not have an ill affinity towards each other, you earn a half point out of a possible five towards your total Wavelength score.

Each person has an instinctive nature that they rely upon in intense situations when all recourse has left them. This instinctive nature is usually resorted to in crisis situations and in situations when a person has to do something, but does not know what to do. The instinctive nature also comes out to a lesser degree during the more intense aspects of sex. For a couple to go through intense situations harmoniously together and for a couple to bond through intense experiences and sexual experiences, it is important that their instinctive natures be compatible.

Astrological indications reveal that your instinctive natures are harmoniously disposed towards each other, which is great and earns you three out of a possible four points towards your total Wavelength score. Having harmonious instinctive natures will help you get through the intense experiences in life together and you will even bond through these experiences.

A man's temperament will either feel comfortable and safe to a women, or it will feel more threatening. If the man's temperament feels safe and comfortable, then the woman will, or course, feel better about the relationship, and she will also be better able to get over any issues that may be making having a good relationship difficult for her. It will help her grow emotionally. The man will also benefit as he will fell like he is doing the right things in the relationship which will help him fell good about himself and, by extension, the relationship. If, on the other hand, the man's temperament feels more threatening, the woman will only have a more difficult time feeling secure in the relationship and the efforts that the man might make to move the relationship forward, or to improve the relationship, may actually cause a setback in the relationship. If that is the case, the man may become frustrated and unhappy with himself and, by extension, the relationship.

Astrological indications reveal that the man's general temperament is non-threatening to the woman and so you gain three points towards your total Wavelength score. This will help both of you feel good about the relationship - the woman will feel good because more of the man's actions (if indeed he takes any actions) will feel right by her and the man will feel good because he is doing right by the woman. In times of difficulty, there is a greater possibility of working things out, what the man will do to fix the problem (if he attempts to fix the problem) will more often than not be what will fix the problem.

This is quite a minor comparison by itself, and by itself it will not have a major say in the relationship, it is only important in the context of gaining a high enough Wavelength score as to have a good relationship.

The woman has an innate ability to know what her man needs.

When you are together there will be an innate ability for the woman to know what the man needs and she will be happy to provide it. The man, in turn, will fall deeper in love with the woman as a result of her devotion. This can help you feel like you care for each other and so earns you one point towards your Wavelength score.

This relationship will incline you to make negative changes.

People change as a result of being in a relationship. Each person mutates somewhat as a result of being with the other. Ideally, this change is for the better and since it is part of human nature to want to change and improve, if the relationship has an innate ability to bring about positive changes, the couple's need for growing and improving will be better met.

Astrological indications reveal that your relationship is more likely to support your ill habits. Unfulfilling aspects of the relationship will be more likely to pull you down and so the relationship will feel even less fulfilling. As a result of this you lose one point that would otherwise have gone towards your Wavelength score.

As mentioned, your total Wavelength points are low, under sixteen points. However, you share a special astrological factor that helps you both feel an innate sense of purpose and meaning together. This is the type of purpose that will help you feel like you belong together years from now. This connection helps you feel more right about being together and will go a long way to help you make any compromises that having a low Wavelength will require. So if you are both willing to allow for enough independence so that both of you can fulfill your needs and if you are both undemanding people, you will be able to have a good relationship.

Obstacles can be overcome so that you can be together.

In any relationship so much has to happen for two people to completely be together. Many of these things are practical things, like living in the same place, both being free and unattached, having work schedules that allow the necessary time for being together and having enough money to feel secure about building a life together. Then there is always the matter of being in the same mood and frame of mind so that they can enjoy sharing their lives with each other. Getting all of these things to fall into place can be quite a chore at times and there is plenty of opportunity for setbacks and obstacles to being together. For some couples, their destinies are timed so completely differently that there will always be something, or some feeling, preventing them from fully being together. Their destinies pull them apart and simply living their very lives becomes a source of obstacles to being together. When one lives in California, the other lives in Florida, when the Californian moves to Florida, the Floridian moves to New York to take care of their mother...and so the relationship goes or, rather, does not go. Fortunately, you escape this and the timing of your destinies is not an impossible conflict. So long as other compatibility factors are okay, you will be able to sort out your lives and make any changes and adjustments necessary in order to be together.

Your association does not bring any extra misfortune into your lives.

Besides the obvious importance to love and to be loved in a relationship, it is important for every couple to share a productive and happy life together. In fact, being in love increases our desire to live a productive and fortunate life. Some people get together and find their lives getting better and find more and more meaning to be with each other. Others, on the other hand, get together only to have everything go completely wrong, not just wrong in their lives, but wrong between them as well. Their very togetherness brings ill feelings between them along with misfortune. It is as if they are tied to a string of unfortunate events. Fortunately, one astrological measurement will show whether a couple is tied to the type of misfortune that has no end and no cure or if their association does not breed any extra ill into their lives.

Astrological indications reveal that your relationship does not suffer from any such type of unfortunate attachments. Due to your own inherent destinies and personalities you may still find yourselves attracting unfortunate events, in which case you will need to take a close look at yourselves as individuals so that you can see what issues you are holding onto that are attracting the ill events. You may also find yourselves playing games with each other or putting walls up between each other. If that is the case, it points to issues that you need to work out and not issues that are the result of your association with each other.

While the Moon represents a person's nature and consciousness, Mars is the planet through which we assert what is in our mind and heart. For two people to have a harmonious relationship, not only must they have an innate attunement towards each other, they must also assert themselves equally, or else the relationship will become imbalanced and frustrated. The position of Mars in your horoscope, and not just in one of your Vedic charts but in three important charts, determines how much force you assert yourself with in your relationship. If both of you assert yourselves with relatively equal force, you will be able to work together to have a balanced and healthy relationship. If one of you asserts yourself more than the other, then the relationship will become imbalanced.

Your horoscopes show that you assert yourselves with relatively equal pressure. This will help you to act and respond towards each other in a balanced fashion that allows both of you to feel like you have a say in your relationship, that the relationship is equal and that both of your needs are getting met. You are equally matched in strength and you can, therefore, work together to build a better life.

Relationships are rarely easy as we all bring our challenging personalities into our relationships. When it comes down to it, the right relationship is the relationship that we feel right about being in the way that it is. A relationship in which we love a person but hope for things to be different and to change, cannot really be termed the right relationship. It is natural for each of us to have our hopes and wishes and no relationship will fulfill them all, but if we can accept the relationship for the hopes that it does fulfill then we are on the right track to the right relationship. Further, if the hopes that the relationship does not fulfill do not become a source of damage to the relationship or do not cause us to be cruel to our partner, then it is the right relationship.

The Vedic compatibility focuses on this right type of relationship. The considerations it makes are those that determine if people can have this type of foundation together. Since the five important measurements between you two are all good or acceptable, the foundation for this type of relationship is there. If you are still having problems in the relationship even though these five important measurements are okay, then you have to look towards yourself, as that will be the source of the problems and you will have to work those out before you will ever have the right kind of relationship.

The five important measurements are Respect, Wavelength, Obstacles, Misfortune and Assertive Pressure. Since all of these are harmonious, or if they are inharmonious they are balanced by something else as mentioned above, this relationship can provide for the healthy growth of you both, it helps to bring out your best and it helps you to work through your issues so that you can live a happier and more productive life.