I received request from my partner which i accepted it as it was matching the criteria(not all). Then after initial talks we decided to meet with family and at her resident we had traditional kanda pohe program. On that day my family and her family met, we asked questions to each other and to family members. We had 15mins to talk with each other in personal in which i liked her and her nature. After this the family moved further with the proceedings. I Went to other city for some office work, during this time we were able to talk with ach other and understand more about each other. Once i was back we decided to tie the knot and all things were happy then after. Thanks to Jeevansathi for becoming the mediator.