She was her niece live in Bengalore/IT Sectore,who posted the Add.Initial contact was made by her on 2nd may,which I accepted on 4th May.As it happens I forgot that.. Then again there was a personal message on 8th Dec,2006, which I accepted.After that it was her Didi who made this happen..First day when I saw her Didi,,I just remmember my Mom whom I lost 2004.Minu,my wife came to meet me on second day...a Coffy House(named Adda- what could be better name in Kolkata.),we had coffy.then goes on.. Her Didi asked me wheather I was searching for a Beautyful Lady or not... I said I know the deffect of Aisharya even so..? I wanted a Good Head on a confident Shoulder. May be the reason why I selected her could be negative for certain people.. is though she got evrything in Rourkela(Parental House,Service in good School etc.etc. ),she came to Kolkata only to live on her own...which I apriciated most..She got a Confident with a Polite respect and Values..Only Problem is our Food Habit...She is 100% Veg,( I tell it Ghash-Push),I am 100% Non-veg(She tell it Shikaar). But believe me this doesnt make any Problem for us.. I am a non-believer on God, She is 100% Believer.. But I visited more Mandir-Masjid than her,know more Rituals ...So,,This is our Story...and We are still not Staying together,as she is in half of the season in her School so cant leave that now(You have to be responsible to your Juniour- School Students to get their Respect). We got married on 4th March cause Marreige of Her Didi's Son fixed on 5th March(auspecious day)...So we enjoyed a lot with all of her Family... they( Bacha log call Minu aunty and me MoonDa ( My nick name is Moon),as I ask them to call so..Hey It is interesting Isnt it? Do you know they all realy love me with their Heart and Respect my Wife with Their Head and Heart,,,sounds interesting isnt it? Till today(14th March 2007) we havent slept together at night... But does it mean so much? As I said you have to be on Sacrifice mode always to your Juniours so that they can realy love and respect you... I dont express my love to her dierctly, nor she.. Rather we talk against each other... but still all the family members tells that we realy love each other..Love is to feel not to expression .... And if you love some one somthing happen which marked by the others and all.. any way I must Stop here or It will be another Love Story like Heer-- Lail--..