SHadma's brother contacted me for her. WE went to her place and liked her folks there. Then I met Shadma alone for a couple of hours and we talked and talked. Never once did I feel that I don't know her!! I gave the approval and received the same from her too!! Our families were very happy and it sounds more like a dream turning into reality. We goit engaged on 23rd November 2008 and are getting married on 29th May 2009! Thank you Jeevansathi for helping me find my Jeevansathi!!!