We just got engaged and getting married soon. I am so happy to share our story with everyone. I live in California and my fiancee lives in Rajasthan. We both were looking to find our life partner and hence created profile on Jeevansathi. I spent countless number of hours talking to different girls in last 1 year. All of these girls had some good qualities in them. Some of them were good looking, some well educated, established career etc; but there was something missing. I don't know what until i started talking to Kanika. Kanika on the other hand just started looking, few months ago. She spoke to few guys but nothing matched her taste. One fine day I was going through profiles on Jeevsanthi and i saw Kanika, she had few lovely pictures and her profile was average, nothing which stands out. Somehow I was getting this feeling that i should reach out to her and get to know her. I followed my heart and sent her Invite to Connect. She accepted it right away. I sent her message to understand if she would like to speak over the phone. She sent me her whatsapp number and we started talking. When we started talking over the phone, I immediately felt a strong connection with her. We think alike when it comes to Culture, family values, Career goals, Travel, Animal Cruelty and giving back to society. We talked everyday for hours. I went to India to meet her. We met in coffee shop. We spoke for couple of hours, had some good laughs. There was no awkwardness because we were talking to each other from a month. I took her out on a real date next day. We went to a nice hotel for lunch. Then She took me to Orphanage for Special need kids so that we can spend some time with them. That gesture of her melted my heart and i knew right away that She is the one. Outside orphanage, we saw some stray dogs and I started playing with them. She later told me that she loved that about me. Then we went to Starbucks for couple of hours and then movie. Before going into movie, i told her that I like her and I am going to say yes to my family. She felt the same way. We watched movie holding hands. A week later, we got engaged. We are so much in love with each other that we cannot believe that we know each other for just few months. Advice to others: Be real with whoever you speak. Everyone tries to show their good sides in start but it is not enough because once you are in relationship, they will see bad sides too. Be respectful to others. Don't try to change other person. Listen to other person carefully. Don't jump to conclusions based on assumptions. Ask your questions whenever in doubt. Use latest photos in your profile. Don't write your profile thinking what you want to be or what other person would like to hear. Write who you really are. If in doubt, ask your friends to describe you. Be positive, you will fall in love when time comes. Just keep on trying and don't get demotivated even with family pressure.